Crazy Ideas For Single Ladies On Valentines Day

by Shalonda Gordon in Single Mom

single ladies on valentines day

Not all Single Ladies On Valentines Day are sad…

Truth be told there are plenty of things to do for the single ladies on Valentines Day.

It is a real thing that certain holidays can make people feel a certain kind of way.  I personally remember when I felt my emotions changing the minute the month of February hit.

After doing some soul searching, I realized what those feelings were really about.. and started loving myself more! See single ladies on valentines day must realize that a ‘mate’ should add 100% not MAKE you 100%.

So I begin to notice the change in emotions and started asking myself questions as to WHY I felt this way..

See my “Lady in the Mirror” Questions below

Are you lonely?

How do you view yourself?

Are you a success?

Are you full of joy or sadness? Why?

Are these feelings from your TRUE SELF?

single ladies on valentines day

Single Ladies On Valentines Day

As today is not only Valentines Day… yet it is a Friday as well.. I figured I would put together a list of a few things that single ladies can do on valentines day.

(I actually picked these up from see more info here)

1. Indulge in yourself. Since Valentine’s Day is all about love, spending the day loving yourself makes perfect sense. Play hooky from work (or just leave an hour early) and do whatever you want, be it pampering yourself with a lavish mani-pedi or staying home, ordering take out and marathoning every movie your celeb crush has ever been on TiVo Roamio Pro.  Since it comes standard with Netflix, Hulu Plus, YouTube and more, there isn’t a thing your little heart desires that you can’t watch on it. You could be watching your favorite shows live anywhere you want and Roamio’s in it for the long haul, with it’s 450 HD hours of storage. So go ahead, binge watch that hospital drama if you want. After all, you have no one to please but your own darn self.

2. Go after what you want. If indulging seems a little too…indulgent, go the opposite direction and use the day to finish (or start) something you’ve been meaning to tackle. Secure that promotion you’ve been after at work, start your on-line business at, or rearrange your bookshelf by color (it really brightens a room!).

3. Find something new to love. Interested in taking up yoga? Want to learn how to dance ballet? Wish you could cook risotto? Challenge yourself to do something you haven’t done before, or seldom get to do because of your schedule. Check on your friends that are Single Ladies on Valentines Day and challenge them to do the same.

4. Send love someone else’s way. Studies show that kindness spreads, so start an epidemic. Give Valentine’s Day cards to those close to you, especially other single ladies on Valentines Day, like your co-workers and friends, as well as those not so close to you, like the barista who serves you your coffee. Not the Hallmark type? Volunteer locally  and help those less fortunate than you. Seeing a face light up from your small gesture will fill you with love and make the world a better place.

single ladies on valentines day

All and All Single Ladies on Valentines Day… all you should do is enjoy every second of your day..

As a mom.. I’m spending my day loving on my daughters.. who happen to be out of school today due to ‘so called’ weather.

Make it great on purpose..

Keep Smiling,

Shalonda Gordon

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Single Ladies On Valentines Day

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